I can hear the bells....

It's funny to sit and think that when I started this blog, I had no idea I would be married a few months later. I couldn't be happier than I am with Ben. I just hope that our spur of the moment wedding isn't something we grow to regret doing. I won't have a "wedding dress" to show Lucy when she grows up. I didn't have bridesmaids or a flower girl. When I start thinking things like that I realize how dumb I'm being. Those things don't make a wedding. Ben and I...that's what matters. We are in love. We want to stay together forever. Those are the important things. I shake my head when I hear people say they've been planning their weddings since childhood. How can you plan something without having the only thing that matters, a husband?!!  Bitches be crazy. Even though we didn't have a huge to do, our families were there. Lucy was there, and we professed our love to each other. That's the stuff that matters. I just hope that we raise Lucy to believe the same way....I hope she knows that dresses and flowers and church venues aren't what make a wedding day special. I hope she knows that expensive rings don't guarantee happiness. I hope she knows that Barbie will live just fine without Ken.